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Secret Confessions
[Edited Because I Fracking Can]
Welcome to the Secret Confessions thread. Beyond the pure anonymity of the internet, there lies a certain level of understanding behind all the accounts here on FF. The SC account carries burden of allowing the user to give a candid, private confession with (hopefully) understanding feedback. The SC thread is for other posters to give kind and/or helpful advice, words of empathy, or a secret of their own (under the SC name or not).
This account is a group account, and EVERYONE needs to treat it respectfully. By posting under the Secret Confessor, you are pledging to refrain from hate mail, "finger-pointing", insulting and being a jerkface. By posting in the SC thread, you are pledging to keep the comments respectful. This has not yet been a problem, but it's nice to have written down "just in case".
If you would like to use the SC account for ANY reason beside posting in this thread, please PM me- even if it's under the SC name (this is not to exert authority, but to maintain order over a very accessible account).
Thank you!
email/login:
secretconfession@ymail.com
Password: secret
Welcome to the Secret Confessions thread. Beyond the pure anonymity of the internet, there lies a certain level of understanding behind all the accounts here on FF. The SC account carries burden of allowing the user to give a candid, private confession with (hopefully) understanding feedback. The SC thread is for other posters to give kind and/or helpful advice, words of empathy, or a secret of their own (under the SC name or not).
This account is a group account, and EVERYONE needs to treat it respectfully. By posting under the Secret Confessor, you are pledging to refrain from hate mail, "finger-pointing", insulting and being a jerkface. By posting in the SC thread, you are pledging to keep the comments respectful. This has not yet been a problem, but it's nice to have written down "just in case".
If you would like to use the SC account for ANY reason beside posting in this thread, please PM me- even if it's under the SC name (this is not to exert authority, but to maintain order over a very accessible account).
Thank you!
email/login:
secretconfession@ymail.com
Password: secret
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Permalink Reply by Megan (Fishy) on
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I... can't answer that. I'm not shy -- however, I'm quiet. I have no problem with being assertive or arguing or anything. Really, being "shy" isn't an issue for me. I prefer to just observe, but if something catches my attention I'll talk and say whatever I'm thinking or feeling.
I see what you're saying, End, but it's really not an issue. I can speak assertively, that's not the problem... *can't really explain*
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Permalink Reply by o0_flying high_0o on
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I think... End is kind of right here. You do need to act assertively if you want this to change. We had a similar issue in our group earlier this year, where one girl would cop a lot of shit (although to be fair, she was far from the only one, and she probably didn't get it the worse), and she was tired of that. We didn't really realise that she was seriously fed up with it, even though she actually said so. We thought she was overreacting not because we don't take her seriously but because she'd always put up with it, we knew we weren't serious (and thought she knew that too), and we couldn't really see what was wrong with it. In the end she left our group for a few weeks, and then when she came back... well we got the message.
I'm not saying you should do the same, but the longer you leave it the harder it's going to be.
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Yeah, I know.
My friends (in this particular circle of people, excluding the one girl) are very... immature. I dunno, just... my "best friend" Olivia has always taken advantage of me. Always. (We've been friends for 10 years, I'm 14...) When we played sports together, if she got pissed she'd yell at me -- because I was the only one who didn't yell back at her. One day I did.
She wanted me to take a yoga class with her. I kinda like yoga, I've done it before, but I had scheduling conflicts on half the days, and my parents wouldn't let me anyway. She was pissed and wouldn't talk to me for four days.
She gets mad when I won't loan her money, or if I ask her to pay me back... she owes me loads, but I'm pretty lenient about it.
I guess I don't know what I'm trying to say/prove here. Just that... it's not that I'm incapable of being assertive; it just wouldn't work.
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*nods*
Well, I s'pose you'd know your situation better than I would :\although I can't help but think Olivia doesn't sound like a very good friend at all...So, good luck. I hope you figure something out. They're very lucky to have you, even if they don't seem to realise that. -
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*nods* I just posted this to rant, I didn't want you guys to have to reply and then be corrected by me.... it's just so hard to explain, and I think some things were misinterpreted, or needed background or something. But thanks.
Um... yeah... she's, well, not...
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Permalink Reply by Doomy on
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I can identify with that :-/
I've been that girl for a while, and only recently have I felt like I've carved a niche for myself within my friends. :) Good luck to you, and I'm sorry >.< .
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:) That's great. I used to have that, before I switched schools and our group got all split up, new people, it was just all bad for the lot of us.
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Permalink Reply by Lamp Post on
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Not so Secret Confession: I kind of miss arguing semi-weekly with Genn. >.<' This both surprises me and depresses me, the latter more so.
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Why?
But I can kind of understand that.... *kind of hated/hates her*
Why is it depressing, though?
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Permalink Reply by Avenged on
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*is happy because she ruined the "666"*
Ooh, Mod Genn. She's the one that banned me.
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I'm not sure who banned me. I was the second in a series of bannings/mini rebellion thing. It was kinda crazy.
Though, I'd bet you anything it was either Genn or Katy. I haven't exactly had peachy relations with those two....
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