Welcome to the Secret Confessions thread. Beyond the pure anonymity of the internet, there lies a certain level of understanding behind all the accounts here on FF. The SC account carries burden of allowing the user to give a candid, private confession with (hopefully) understanding feedback. The SC thread is for other posters to give kind and/or helpful advice, words of empathy, or a secret of their own (under the SC name or not).
This account is a group account, and EVERYONE needs to treat it respectfully. By posting under the Secret Confessor, you are pledging to refrain from hate mail, "finger-pointing", insulting and being a jerkface. By posting in the SC thread, you are pledging to keep the comments respectful. This has not yet been a problem, but it's nice to have written down "just in case".
If you would like to use the SC account for ANY reason beside posting in this thread, please PM me- even if it's under the SC name (this is not to exert authority, but to maintain order over a very accessible account).
Um... sweetheart. I'm not an expert on this stuff, and I don't mean to sound all self-righteous when I say this, but in my limited experience that is not how love works. The friendship kind and the romantic kind included. You usually have to know someone before you fall in love with them... and, usually, that comes with caring about them.
That said... just tell her. Maybe she shares your feelings, or at least would be willing to get to know you better.
Are we talking "I think you're cool we should be besties" love or, "I want to be your girlfriend" love?
I don't think you are a bitch (I mean, you might be, but...), I just pointed out that the post, from where I can see as serving no other purpose, was bitchy.
But that's not the point of SC. I'm not supposed to judge you. So imma shut up now...
I love you as well, Ni. Sometimes when I'm talking I'll just be like "wow that sounds like something Ni would have said FUCK YES. THE AWESOMENESS IS CONTAGIOUS." And all my friends will be like "psychosis is not a thing to be proud of, Hannah."