Secret Confessions

[Doomy]

[Edited Because I Fracking Can]

Welcome to the Secret Confessions thread. Beyond the pure anonymity of the internet, there lies a certain level of understanding behind all the accounts here on FF. The SC account carries burden of allowing the user to give a candid, private confession with (hopefully) understanding feedback. The SC thread is for other posters to give kind and/or helpful advice, words of empathy, or a secret of their own (under the SC name or not).

This account is a group account, and EVERYONE needs to treat it respectfully. By posting under the Secret Confessor, you are pledging to refrain from hate mail, "finger-pointing", insulting and being a jerkface. By posting in the SC thread, you are pledging to keep the comments respectful. This has not yet been a problem, but it's nice to have written down "just in case".

If you would like to use the SC account for ANY reason beside posting in this thread, please PM me- even if it's under the SC name (this is not to exert authority, but to maintain order over a very accessible account).

Thank you!


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[Megan (Fishy)]

RG.... since when do you swear? O.O

[Random Girl A.K.A. Nobody]

Very rarely.

[Megan (Fishy)]

*hugshugshugshugshugs*

Okay, socially awkward straight chick over here, so I don't know how good this'll be. Bear with me.

Weigh your pros and cons. Coming out is great, and it's something you can do at any time, so if you think it'd hurt you more than help you to come out now, wait till college. I know you probably want to be yourself, but if that would make you miserable, just wait. It's only a few years (or a year, depending on how old you are).
Also, your family and friends may surprise you. My cousin came out when she was in her 20s, and she has the most redneck, traditional immediate family I've ever met. They totally supported her.

I haven't guessed... should I have?

[Secret Confessor]

*hugs*

*understands*

I... won't even consider if I'm bi or not. Most of my friends are homophobic. And, even though they are, I still love them. And I wouldn't want to loose them. But I've seen how they are around my gay/bi/lesbian friends, and... It's not pretty.

I think I might be bi or even just flat out lesbian, but... I can't even think about it, because I'm afraid of what will happen if it's true.

[Megan (Fishy)]

*hugs you*

I get this. I'm straight, but I have so many homophobic friends, and they're just brutal to my queer friends, it's horrible.

You can talk to us. Don't forget that. I rather think we're pretty accepting, even if your RL friends aren't.

[Secret Confessor]

The scars aren't an accident like I pass them off as. I wonder if people believe it because it's believable or because they won't consider the alternative.

I knew what I was doing. I didn't know it would scar, but even after I discovered it would, I kept it up. I don't know why. Nothing was wrong, then. At least now there's a reason.

[Megan (Fishy)]

I feel like I'm responding to every one of these with no advice to offer, sorry for wasting your time. v.v

*understands* I have a scar too, hon. Just one, only one scarred permanently, but it's still the same. Don't do it again. We're here for you. There are healthier ways.

[Secret Confessor]

You don't need advice Fishy. You care more than most RL people. *hugs* I love you.

[Megan (Fishy)]

*hugs* I love you too, whoever you are. It's just safe to assume that I love you, if you're here.

[Secret Confessor]

You haven't guessed? *surprised*

Of course. We love almost everyone here don't we?

[Megan (Fishy)]

No, I haven't. Um. Let's see. There's like a 90% chance that you're female. It's impossible for you to be Lamp as she has no internet access. That's about all I can narrow it down. *fails*

Yes, yes we do.

[Secret Confessor]

*giggles* Yes, I'm female and I'm not Lamp. XD *really surprised you haven't guessed*

*hugs again*