Welcome to the Secret Confessions thread. Beyond the pure anonymity of the internet, there lies a certain level of understanding behind all the accounts here on FF. The SC account carries burden of allowing the user to give a candid, private confession with (hopefully) understanding feedback. The SC thread is for other posters to give kind and/or helpful advice, words of empathy, or a secret of their own (under the SC name or not).
This account is a group account, and EVERYONE needs to treat it respectfully. By posting under the Secret Confessor, you are pledging to refrain from hate mail, "finger-pointing", insulting and being a jerkface. By posting in the SC thread, you are pledging to keep the comments respectful. This has not yet been a problem, but it's nice to have written down "just in case".
If you would like to use the SC account for ANY reason beside posting in this thread, please PM me- even if it's under the SC name (this is not to exert authority, but to maintain order over a very accessible account).
I hate it when people end up talking to you when you're in blissful ignorance because they're suspicious without much reason, and then you end up becoming slightly paranoid/suspicious. Especially when they might have a point >.<'
It's like a bad snowball effect, getting curious, suspicious, worrying, feeling bad about the previous actions, then continuing to work on your growing suspicion, and all the while debating with yourself saying that either the facts suggest otherwise, or that perhaps you should've noticed this before.