Or do you not want to hurt him? In that case.... just ignore the phone. See that red button? Press it. Hold it down. Is the screen black now? Okay, now I want you to walk to the other side of the house. Set it down. Walk back to your computer.
Forgive my ignorance, but.... I don't see the problem. You like him, so text him. You don't like him, don't text him. You're not sure... think about it. Nobody says you have to answer the texts immediately.
I dunno... we've talked about lots of random stuff and I have a very strong feeling that he really likes me and I dunno. It's just that he's two years older than me and I'm scared that he'll be too... hands on? Yeah. Otherwise I'd have no problem.
.....Just saying, from what I've witnessed, the freshman and sophomores seem to be more "hands on"....once they're older, it seems they're better able to respect boundaries. Maturity, I guess.
And I don't know, he wasn't there this week.... but nobody was there this week. Doug, Anya.... everyone was just gone. There were only 10-12 of us there for some reason or another. So.... I can hope?