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That's so sweet.
I used to write music.You know, when I was eight and couldn't write music for my life.
Sometimes now I mess around on the piano and my parents say "OMG it's good!" (Well, not like that, but close enough) and I say "No, it's not"
Contemplating deleting a lot of my IRL friends on Facebook because all they do is piss me off. And I mean seriously annoy me to no end, until I just plain want to sever all ties outside of Facebook as well. Does that make me antisocial, or just in-need-of-better-friends? I've noticed it's a specific group of friends, too, so I don't know...
I feel the same way, only it's such a vast majority of my friends...
You can hide them from your news feed and just ignore them the rest of the time... Deleting them as friends is always a bit 'wtf' if they notice. I mean, I just try to avoid drama, you might be different.
I would honestly rather make it clear that I think they're a bunch of immature idiotic bastards, at least online.
AND WHAT BETTER TIME TO DO IT THAN THE SUMMER
Do people still have that whole stress about their significant other saying "I love you" and they can't can't say it back and mean it? Because I'm somewhat worried about the fact that my girlfriend might have said it. And by might, I mean she did, in an IM, while I was gone. "are you there?
okay.. guess not. BYE THEN!!
LOVE YA!!
<3"
And now I don't know what to do, really. The problem is that I can easily, easily say it back and mean it 100%, but I don't want us to be able to do that in our relationship yet. I'm paranoid that we're going to rush, or it's going to seem like we are, and I'm her first boyfriend when she's not even allowed to have a boyfriend. So, if she actually says it, I'm going to say it back, mean it, and not tell her any of this, but yeah... Worry.
I never wanted to rush anything, but I think Miles and I kind of rushed it... we said "I love you" really, really quickly. But we both meant it completely. So... I dunno.
I don't think it's a bad thing. If you mean it, go for it. It's a lot different than those people who say "I love you" right away to every single significant other -- you just happen to know you love her early on. People who don't know you might think you're being stupid or rushing, but who cares?