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Xuut did post the one directly above Secret Confessor's post about how she wasn't allowed to say goodbye or tell her friend's she was moving, which fits more with her answers. Also, I know she's said she's directly said she's never been abused or anything, even if her family is screwed up at times.
Band camp was all last week, and I was with Jordyn (my girlfriend) for ages. I managed to keep my goals in not rushing my relationship... Except for one, and that was holding off on the L-word until the relationship had progressed that far. The problem is I knew we both really wanted it, badly, and Jordyn seemed really down... not to mention us not seeing each other for the next week and a half. But I still feel bad for rushing it, even though she said it back and liked it. So I've still got my rushing-relationship paranoia, but I'm okay. Now I just have to stave off the first kiss for Christmas. Considering homecoming is before then... damnit.