Welcome to the Secret Confessions thread. Beyond the pure anonymity of the internet, there lies a certain level of understanding behind all the accounts here on FF. The SC account carries burden of allowing the user to give a candid, private confession with (hopefully) understanding feedback. The SC thread is for other posters to give kind and/or helpful advice, words of empathy, or a secret of their own (under the SC name or not).
This account is a group account, and EVERYONE needs to treat it respectfully. By posting under the Secret Confessor, you are pledging to refrain from hate mail, "finger-pointing", insulting and being a jerkface. By posting in the SC thread, you are pledging to keep the comments respectful. This has not yet been a problem, but it's nice to have written down "just in case".
If you would like to use the SC account for ANY reason beside posting in this thread, please PM me- even if it's under the SC name (this is not to exert authority, but to maintain order over a very accessible account).
I feel like we can't talk anymore. We haven't talked properly in weeks. And I feel bad when talking to you. We used to be so close. I miss you. Either schedules haven't worked or we just sit there, kinda ignore another, you're to distracted to keep conversation, or something happens. I feel like this is my fault, or that I'm a horrid person for thinking this. . . and I doubt it's going to get fixed. I feel replaced and we're drifting. I'm so glad you're happy but selfishly, I don't want to let go. . . I'm sorry you feel obligated to continuously put up with me still. I don't know whether it's best to start to move on myself or just. . . get used to being dragged along.
Don't be an idiot. Of course I still care about you. He doesn't change that and he will never replace you. If I had to choose between the two of you, I'd pick you anyday - not that you'd believe me if I said it. I love you. I miss you, too. But I wish you'd at least say this stuff to my face, rather than having to find out from Secret Confessor how disappointed you are in me...
It's a language filter, part of the holyshitexpensive Ning plan. Since I didn't spring for that plan, we not only don't have one, but we don't even have the option for one.
...not like I'd want one, mind. Takes all the fun out.