Secret Confessions

[Doomy]

[Edited Because I Fracking Can]

Welcome to the Secret Confessions thread. Beyond the pure anonymity of the internet, there lies a certain level of understanding behind all the accounts here on FF. The SC account carries burden of allowing the user to give a candid, private confession with (hopefully) understanding feedback. The SC thread is for other posters to give kind and/or helpful advice, words of empathy, or a secret of their own (under the SC name or not).

This account is a group account, and EVERYONE needs to treat it respectfully. By posting under the Secret Confessor, you are pledging to refrain from hate mail, "finger-pointing", insulting and being a jerkface. By posting in the SC thread, you are pledging to keep the comments respectful. This has not yet been a problem, but it's nice to have written down "just in case".

If you would like to use the SC account for ANY reason beside posting in this thread, please PM me- even if it's under the SC name (this is not to exert authority, but to maintain order over a very accessible account).

Thank you!


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[Megan (Fishy)]

XD

[Secret Confessor]

Good to know that they're not dangerous.

But I don't really believe that you have them like I do.

@Hannah: Yes, that was me. It's my hip.

[Megan (Fishy)]

Why don't you believe me? I definitely do. I used to hate them, but they don't really bother me so much. If this is what it takes for me to have hips and boobs, you know what, that's a good enough deal to me.

[Secret Confessor]

Because you're the type to insult yourself over something that's untrue, or make yourself look worse, to comfort somebody else.

I'm not saying you don't have them, but they're nowhere near as bad as mine.

[Hannah]

Honestly I don't see how that's an insult. Unless you're wearing a string bikini, they won't be apparent. Tip: don't wear a string bikini.

I assume that anyone you have intimacy with isn't going to be incredibly distracted by a few marks on your hip.

[Megan (Fishy)]

*sighs* Must you be difficult?

Since you don't believe me, look, it's my hip! (The worst one are on my boobs, but obviously this will have to do because child porn is kind of extremely illegal and I'm not quite that immodest.) This picture makes me look really really fat. I swear I'm not that fat, I swear

EDIT @Hannah -- Nobody should ever let stretchmarks, scars, or otherwise, stop them from wearing a string bikini if they want to wear a string bikini.

[Hannah]

If you think that makes you look "really fat"...

Oh dear God. *hops on treadmill*

@"@Hannah": I just meant to allow SC to see that it wasn't practical to fret over them. Looking back, you're definitely right.

[Megan (Fishy)]

>.> It looks fat to me.

I've seen pictures of you, and you're not fat.

I'm hard(ish...) on myself, first, and by "fat" I don't mean "large," I mean "high quantity of body fat where it shouldn't be."

[Hannah]

I actually am, but I am a very good photographer. I think that's where my obsession with photography and makeup and clothes comes from. You can take something that's not beautiful, and you can make it beautiful. With the right products, you have the ability to micro-manage nature. It's not as good as changing it, but it works for me.

[Megan (Fishy)]

I really really doubt you're fat.

And honey, I took a full year photography class last year. I know all the little tricks, and I know how to tell when someone's used them. You'd be just as beautiful with a picture at a normal angle in broad daylight.

[Hannah]

Well "fat" is highly subjective... To some people it's anyone who's not skinny and to some it's just the morbidly obese. It's really pointless to argue if I am or not, but I'm not skinny.

And I know for a fact that I don't, because I have an entire folder of photos of me at a normal angle in daylight that will never see the light of day because I look awful.

[Megan (Fishy)]

You're biased by being yourself. Everyone is their own worst critic. You're gorgeous. Embrace it.