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What? She's going to a party, not clubbing. And she's like 12. Last time I checked the only things they're putting in your mouth at those parties are party pies, and soft drink. I know it may be with the 'popular' group, but still...
Oh, wow... *maybe slightly sheltered* *still doesn't need to worry about that* Unless there's punch, and that's simply because they don't now how to make and put in like 4 bottles of vodka, as opposed to purposely being harmful.
Permalink Reply by Xuut on September 11, 2010 at 2:50pm
Depends.
Tally is from a small town, and a rich state. Chances are, it's less likely at her age. But in my old neighborhood it wasn't uncommon to hear fifth graders talk about how totally high/drunk they were. It's freaking ridiculous. I am strongly against it personally.
@Talleh: Well, if you know at least one person and you happen to enjoy spending time with that person then it's okay. I went to a party after semi. Almost everyone drank and I told them all off I got a lot of dirty looks. XDDD mainly I went to laugh at idiots, which there were a lot of. I actually got a couple of laughs one girl faked being really drunk very convincingly, twas rather funny but at your age I doubt anything will be laced with alchohol or anything like that. If that's the case, and you feel uncomfortable get out. Call your parents or ask whoever you came with to leave. Also, if there IS drinking, making sure they're quiet. Best not to bug the neighbors and get cops involved... If they aren't, again, leave.
What do you mean, what are party pies? They're pies, but little, so they make good finger food that kids will eat, and so are often served at parties. Hence the name.
Dude, what the hell do they serve you at kids parties? No fairy bread, no party pies, you probably don't have chocolate ripple cake either....
Do you not have meat pies in America? Pastry, much the same shape as an apple pie (I know you have those), but not sweet, and filled with meat. Those, but small enough to be held by little hands. And definitely not fried