You read RC, yes? The best I can sum it up is -- I was something like the Jeb to her Val: inattentive, kind of egotistical, and unable to give what she needed from me.
I can't pick up on what emotions other people are "broadcasting", and I'm not very driven to be all "let's get together", so... yeah.
It's fine. (I might be compensating for the fact that when I need someone to lean on, I never go looking for them, because I figure they won't be there... so I try to be that someone for another person.)