Secret Confessions

[Doomy]

[Edited Because I Fracking Can]

Welcome to the Secret Confessions thread. Beyond the pure anonymity of the internet, there lies a certain level of understanding behind all the accounts here on FF. The SC account carries burden of allowing the user to give a candid, private confession with (hopefully) understanding feedback. The SC thread is for other posters to give kind and/or helpful advice, words of empathy, or a secret of their own (under the SC name or not).

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[Hannah]

Just shoot me now.

I'm not sure how I made so many enemies. Girl #1 is pissed because she thinks I'm trying to steal her boyfriend. Oh, please. A) He's madly in love with her, and I would know that because he's my best friend, and B) my God, like she would ever feel threatened by anyone. Look at her. And now she's trying to ruin my life by spreading rumors about me. 'KthxGTFO.

Girl #2 is pissed because she's too stupid to understand sarcasm. (EndOf, if you say anything, I swear I will cyber-punch you to the end of the earth. Oh God, ironic much? XD) Now she's telling people that I'm a slut. And that I had sex with this dude that I went out with last year. And we never even came close. And that might possibly explain the reputation I, evidently, have obtained as a slut. I mean, I look like a God damn twelve year old. Where do people get this stuff?

And the only reason I can think of that people would believe I'm a slut is because my best friend is a bit of a slut... She's always had low self-esteem, and she likes the attention, but she is going beyond acceptable. And every time I talk to her, she says she knows she should stop...

God, my life is fucked. And I don't even know how it got to be like this. I thought I was maintaining inadvertent as it was a sweet, innocent image.

So... I just thought I'd complain for a bit.

[EndOfTheEarth]

Re Girl 2: If it was verbalized, which you seem to be inferring, then that's her fault.

[Hannah]

It wasn't. But she over-reacted. I said I was joking, and she said it wasn't funny.

[Megan (Fishy)]

Re:Girl#1 -- Rumors only exist if you let them. Ignore them, and don't play into it, and they will go away. Everyone else is wayyy too wrapped up in their own worries about their own reputations to care that much.

Re:Girl#2 -- Very few people will actually believe that you're a slut because your best friend is a slut. If you're the nice, innocent, young-ish girl, the contrast between you and her will be striking.

And, your life isn't fucked. Your temporary reputation only with acquaintances is fucked for about five minutes. Why only acquaintances? Friends will quickly figure out the truth, and randoms you don't know will either 1) not know who you are, which makes it harder to gossip, or 2) not care because they don't know you.

I am so glad that I am the epitome of average and completely unnoticeable. I don't have to deal with this. Nobody starts rumors about me, because nobody really has anything to say.

[Hannah]

Thanks. :/

[Megan (Fishy)]

I'd ask if that was sarcastic or not, but I don't want to be yelled at to put a frickin' tilde after everything I say...

[Hannah]

'Twas serious. Oh God no.

[Megan (Fishy)]

Oh, okay. *didn't know* I could see how sarcasm could maybe be warranted there, so, *shrugs* XDD

[Secret Confessor]

Everyone keeps commenting on how much weight I've lost. >.>

Like, was I really that fat before?

[RantingSidekick]

o.o Tact fail on their part.

I'm sure you're just as beautiful as you've always been. C:

[Xuut]

-Had that happen-

-Was aware of her significant weight loss-

Maybe it looks very prominent? Sometimes even loosing just a little bit makes you look like you've lost a lot. Same for gaining a bit.

[Megan (Fishy)]

>.> They're not very... tactful. But it's a compliment. See it simply as a compliment. You obviously look great now, even though you were probably just as gorgeous in the past, too.