Welcome to the Secret Confessions thread. Beyond the pure anonymity of the internet, there lies a certain level of understanding behind all the accounts here on FF. The SC account carries burden of allowing the user to give a candid, private confession with (hopefully) understanding feedback. The SC thread is for other posters to give kind and/or helpful advice, words of empathy, or a secret of their own (under the SC name or not).
This account is a group account, and EVERYONE needs to treat it respectfully. By posting under the Secret Confessor, you are pledging to refrain from hate mail, "finger-pointing", insulting and being a jerkface. By posting in the SC thread, you are pledging to keep the comments respectful. This has not yet been a problem, but it's nice to have written down "just in case".
If you would like to use the SC account for ANY reason beside posting in this thread, please PM me- even if it's under the SC name (this is not to exert authority, but to maintain order over a very accessible account).
Darling, we're in a postmodernist society where there is no right and wrong and nobody's worthless.
Society might say you're fat or ugly, but they won't say you're worthless.
And that is all beside the fact that they're wrong, because society has horrid definitions of beauty.
1) Society has never been right about people.
2) Maybe you're not worthless. You're worth as much as you make yourself worth.
3) If people thought they were wasting time, they wouldn't perform activities with you. The fact that they are willing to do so shows that they do not feel their time is being wasted.
4a) Many aspects of the body can be changed by putting effort into changing them: exercising, eating healthy amounts, even just thinking happy thoughts has been shown to affect physical changes to one's body.
4b) Or if it would make you subjectively feel better (though everyone around you would likely disagree with you on the necessity of this method, hence subjectively), science has found ways around almost every worrysome physical aspect of the human body (except for genetics, that's going to be in another 20-40 years). Be successful, get lots of money, and hire a good plastic surgeon.